A place where I can live, breathe, talk and see

I found Brownie through a pet adoption thread in Kaskus (www.kaskus.com)

I plan to move to a new house and I wanted to have a pet cat. So I browse through the adoption sites/ ads through the internet.

I have always wanted to have a black cat, and the first time I saw his photo posted (10 minutes after his owner post his picture) I KNOW this is the cat that I must have!

So I message the Owner and "book" him -- without telling my husband -- and agree to pick him up in the next month. That is around mid of June 2016. Hopefully my house is done by then. But it's not ..

I kept on finding excuses to stall  until I finally pick him up from the Owner's place in October 2016.

Little does the old Owner know that I only bring him to the pet hotel .. because my house is nowhere near completion and I have no definite date on when to move to the new house .. So Brownie stayed there almost 3 months .. Within the 3 months I have some thoughts like should I give him away? Because the poor thing is scared and every photo I receive from the pet hotel owner shows this ringworm patches on his body ..

I finally, FINALLY, bring Brownie into my home end December 2016

Back then he was a little scaredy cat, with patches of ringworms, hides in the corner of the Kitchen for almost 1 month! My husband almost lost his patience on Brownie because he's "not like any other cat", my husband says.

Now, 6 months later, Brownie grew bigger, his fur coat more luxurious, no more ringworms, always playful and almost as affectionate and needy as a dog! :)

I'm glad I took the chance with Brownie. It's love at first sight and I feel happy with the decision I make. One of my best decisions!! :)

Heyy Ladieesss!! :)

 Setelah sudah banyak membaca dan mendengar testimoni teman- teman dan online beauty reviewer mengenai produk SK-II, akhirnya saya memutuskan untuk memuaskan rasa penasaran dengan membeli paket SK-II BESTSELLER TRIAL KIT di Duty Free Changi Airport.

Yeayyy !! :)

Isi BESTSELLER Trial Kit tersebut adalah :

75ml FTE (Facial Treatment Essence) ← Holy Grail MUST HAVE all time favourite! Isi kandungan PITERA essence ini paling banyak dibanding dengan item yang lain, Karena sampai 90%. Jadi buat first timer SK-II user, yang cuma mau beli 1 produk, sangat disarankan memakai FTE ini ..

 20ml Facial Treatment Gentle Cleanser, 
Ini juga salah satu produk SK-II yang bikin saya penasaran. Ada temen saya yang fans berat Cleanser ini, dan karena di starter kit sudah termasuk maka saya makin semangat belinya hehe ..

 20ml RNA Power Cream, 
Ini salah satu produk terbaru SK II, dan kata Mba Sales Assistant nya, paket Bestseller ini worth it banget karena klo beli RNA Power Cream terpisah jauh lbh mahal.

Anyway, RNA adalah singkatan dari Radical New Age, salah satu produk Anti Aging dengan teknologi terbaru yang di claim bisa menghilangkan tanda- tanda penuaan dalam waktu 10 hari.

Maaagiiiccccc!!

 SK-II Facial Treatment Mask
Ini salah satu produk yang termahal menurut saya, Karena cuma ada 1 piece, dan hanya bisa dipakai 1 kali (d'uh..). Ada beberapa beauty blogger yang memakainya beberapa kali tapi saya agak ngeri ya ..
Persis banget ini foto paket yang saya beli .. :)



HARGA dan BIAYA

 Harganya SGD 99, dan dengan pemakaian standard saya, paket ini sudah saya pakai 3 bulan dan botol FTE masih ada isi 40%. Gentle cleanser masih saya pake 2x sehari (belum habis, padahal cuma 20ml ahahaha hemat bgt deh saya :D), RNA Power Cream juga masih 1/3 pot.

Jadi klo perhitungan kira-kira habis dalam waktu 5 bulan, maka per bulan saya habis 200 ribu rupiah untuk perawatan wajah. Kalau di bandingkan dengan perawatan Dokter kulit, tentu jauh lah yaa .. Ini juga salah satu faktor kenapa saya mau coba SK-II, disamping juga faktor “kepo”.

Believe it or not, in my experience, a couple of girl friends surely will RAVES about their Holy Grail FTE. :)




THE PROBLEM

Umur saya 36 tahun ← ini big problem bangett hehe ..

Tadinya wajah saya kusam, banyak bintik-bintik merah, kulit wajah ngga rata (ngga mulus), pori-pori besar, komedoan, kulit di beberapa area cenderung kering dan flaky .. Wah banyak banget masalahnya, sudah bikin frustasi banget karena saya hampir setiap kali dipanggil ibu (bukan mba atau neng, gitu .. ;) maunya .. ).

Panggilan "Ibu" → bukti penuaan :((


Dan believe it or not, karena malas ( ^^ ) saya TIDAK PERNAH membersihkan wajah meskipun saya rajin pakai cc cream dan make up tipis di wajah . Seperti yang sudah bisa diduga, itulah akar masalahnya! Begitu saya pakai Facial Treatment Gentle Cleanser rutin 2x sehari, komedo langsung minggat hehehe. So ladies, jangan pernah lupa membersihkan wajah dan cuci muka pakai Facial Treatment Gentle Cleanser ya!


 THE SK-II DAILY RITUALS

 Jadi urutan ritualnya adalah :

1. Bersihkan muka ;
2. Cuci muka pakai Facial Treatment Gentle Cleanser biar cling!;
3. Pakai FTE.
Saya tidak pakai kapas, langsung dituang sedikit ke kulit dan ditepuk-tepuk lembut biar menyerap ke dalam kulit dengan sempurna.

Tips Penting : FTE bisa diletakkan di botol spray sehingga bisa dipakai kapan saja, bahkan diatas make up. Dan bagian paling kerennya adalah, ZERO WASTE! :)

4. Pakai RNA Power Cream, tipis- tipis aja dengan gerakan memutar, dan ditepuk-tepuk lagi biar menyerap sempurna;

5. Dilanjutkan dengan rangkaian kosmetik lainnya (pagi hari) atau TIDUR! (klo malam)


Sisa- sisa pemakaian.. 


RESULTS !!!

Sekarang genap 3 bulan saya memakai set ini, alhamdulillah ngga ada masalah, ngga ada purging yang suka dibilang orang-orang dan ehem ehem ..

Kulit lebih lembab, komedo minggat (ini perubahan yg paling signifikan!), dan secara keseluruhan jadi GLOWING .. !!!! ^^

 Dulu saya jarang pakai bedak, cuma pake face oil dan cc cream aja karena butiran bedak itu meng-aksentuasi komedo2 dimuka :(( tapi sekarang bisa pakai bedaakk, dan face oil juga sudah berhenti digantikan FTE dan RNA cream hehehe.

75ml FTE (Facial Treatment Essence) 
Waktu awal pakai ini kulit terasa prickly, atau clekit-clekit bahasa jawanya .. Sempet saya tanya ke temen yang Dokter kulit, katanya gpp, karena FTE ini ada sedikit sifat acidic.

Oookaayy...

Selama pemakaian memang kulit terasa lebih terhidrasi dengan baik, ngga kering.

 20ml Facial Treatment Gentle Cleanser, 
Saya suka cleanser ini!!

Yang paling terasa bedanya dengan produk lain yang saya beli, Setelah cuci muka pake Cleanser ini, kulit saya terasa lembab, bersih dan lembuuutt.. Sama sekali ngga kering dan terasa seperti ketarik (klo pake produk yang dulu suka saya beli).

Setelah ini saya rencana mau beli Clarisonic, dan pake Facial Treatment Cleanser ini. Pasti hasilnya makin okehh! :)

 20ml RNA Power Cream, 
Okayy jadi di claim produk bisa menghilangkan tanda- tanda penuaan dalam waktu 10 hari.

Yang saya alami, PORI-PORI SAYA MENGECIIILL!!! Oomg .. Dan ini saya baru perhatikan sih memang .. Setelah 3 bulan *ehm. Maap jarang ngaca ..

Pori-pori mengecil, tapi di beberapa area aja dan ngga hilang seluruhnya. Tapi ini progress yang baik buat saya, mengingat sudah lama bangeeet saya hidup dengan pori-pori kulit jeruk .. :(

 SK-II Facial Treatment Mask
Masker ini cuma ada 1, dan juga kandungan piteranya tinggi sekali, makanya saya pake buat persiapan event khusus misalkan kawinan temen, atau meeting penting ..

Setelah pakai masker ini 20 menit, karena sayang maka saya bawa ke leher dan kompress leher juga selama 20 menit hehe *ogah rugi.

Masih banyak sisa cairan di wadah maskernya dan sudah saya pake untuk "masker" setiap 2 minggu sekali, and it works like magic!

Setelah pakai masker ini, kulit saya terasa lembut dan mulus untuk 2 hari, dan pengaplikasian make up juga lebih mudah dan awet..


KESIMPULAN

Seperti bikin skripsi yah hahaha .. So far, rave yang beredar menang bukan HOAX karena terbukti. Dan soal mitos “mahal”, again, NOT AT ALL.


NO PIC = HOAX ^^



WILL REPURCHASE? YOU BET! :)

Imagine an aerobic class in a gym. It is called Power Aerobic.

The instructor is male-- quite short even for Indonesian, dark olive skin with glistening sweat on a toned muscled body with blonde dyed curly hair on his head. Very high spirited, I can tell you that. And has an endless compilation of sexy perky moves.

The music is damn loud. You can even feel the beat pumps your blood. It goes through your feet, your vein, your head and through the heart. The perky instructor keeps on moving rapidly while shouting wildly like a headless chicken.

In the front row, stands the steady follower of this aerobic guru. They are very perky and high spirited as well. And knew all the moves by heart and sometimes they are shouting also.



In the middle row are the people with enough energy and spirit to do the exercise, but a bit lost about the moves. And they stuck there with nowhere to go. It's not a good position because once the group is getting hot and wild, you must really be watch your step. If not, you might get smacked by the person standing next to you.

On the back row are the guys. One angmoh guy and this chinese middle aged guy. As expected, they are absolutely clueless about the moves but keep on grinning the whole time like mad.

On the far side, near the exit, is me and some other latecomers who are interested in joining the commotion and want to know what is it all about. But also needed a quick exit just in case things are going a bit uncomfortable for us. Or its just my feeling. :)

Anyway, this is my first time trying the class.

The moves are difficult for me to follow, but the music keeps on pumping my blood and the shouting-- I must shamefully admit, it gets me excited as well. So I just keep on moving. I just want to move because the beat gets into my blood and I don't care about the instructor's.

And I can see that's what's most class member are thinking also. We are jumping, moving left and right and front and back, twirling and jumping back and forth again; put our hands up the air, to the right, to the left, swirl some more, move our hands like mad.



We just want to move and that's it.

In the room now looks like some kind of synchronized dance madness happening.

And seeing this madness makes me want to laugh. The faster the music, the louder the screaming, the more asynchronous we've become. It's chaotic but at least most of us won't give up and still try to keep up with the instructor's steps, though still failing horribly..

Anyway, it's a great fun. I don't feel tired at all. It's just later when I sat down, I feel my sweat dripping. And today, I feel my body is aching everywhere. But then I think I will do it again next week. :)



Stay healthy people !!

3 months in Jakarta, still haven't got the perfect rithym and order in my life just yet, but I think things are looking good.

For one, I exercise regularly now. Which is something that I've been wanting to do since a long time ago. And Carrefour is just 150 meter away which is a great thing ^^ and I learn how to cook which will reduce our food expenses, so its a double HOORAY!! And I shop less!! Which is damn AWESOMEE!! Although the temptation of online shopping is very hard to resist..

So overall, my days in Jakarta has been well spent. ^^ But I still think that I need to increase its quality..

Anyway, yesterday I started watching this Korean Drama called Scent of a Woman. It's about a girl who suddenly diagnosed with cancer and only have 6 months to live. And the thought of having only 6 months to live really change her. And I thought of my own life and started thinking, what if I only have 6 months to live?

So here goes my list. Not a very exciting and adventurous list, I'm afraid. But its mine ^^.

1. Read the Koran, the entire 30 chapters, even its only the Indonesian translation.

2. Read the Hadits app I just download.

3. Memorize at least 10 short surahs.

My short surahs collection is VERY small

4. Do some act of kindness at least 3 times a day to other people than my husband. Of course bcs I'm always nice to him ^^

5. Wakaf/ donate a piece of land for mosque or orphanage.

6. Umrah & travel to its surrounding countries

So those are my TOP priorities. I also have a short list of things with less priority, and here it goes :

1. Learn Mandarin.

2. Learn to make an Android App.

3. That's all I can think for now. :)

So you see, a very short and unambitious list. But if I know in advance that I will die in 6 months, those are the things that I MUST do before the day. ^^

So what's the connection between my days in Jakarta and this to do list? Well, nothing. :) I simply want to make full use of my life, be somebody and be a blessing in other people's life.

Have a great weekend people!! ^^

Just browse thru FB and found this status for Mario Teguh's FB page :

Bersabarlah dan tetaplah setia
kepada yang benar.

Tuhan tak akan membiarkan
jiwa kesayangan-Nya sepertimu
...menderita lebih lama dari
kemampuanmu tuk mengatasinya.

Engkau jiwa yang baik,
yang sedang bersedih,
tetapi yang tetap setia memikirkan
hanya yang baik,
merasakan hanya yang baik,
dan melakukan hanya yang baik,
karena sadar bahwa Tuhan
selalu mengamatimu.

Apa lagikah rencana Tuhan,
selain memuliakanmu?

Amien

Be patient and stay faithful
to do the righteous things.

God will not let
His favorite soul like you
... Suffer longer than
your ability to cope.

Thou good soul,
which is sad,
but who remain faithful to think
only good things,
just a good feeling,
and do only good,
knowing that God
always watch over you.

What more in God's plan,
besides to glorify you?

Amen

Be happy people! :)

As usual, I went facebook-stalking, and the blog-stalking :D
Then I stumbled into this one blog belonged to this one person who clearly have a sad case of negativity and hatred.

And it's really sad. Almost pathetic.
And it makes me wonder.

Why does people likes to hold on their hatred and grudges?
Did they enjoy being imprisoned by their own creations and not being able to let go?
Does it give them some sort of satisfaction when their hate and grudge grew to be some sort of cancer in their souls?
Did they have a limitless source of energy so they can burn it all on their anger?

These are the things that I just don't understand. People gets angry. Yes. We sometimes hate also. Yes. But we're supposed to control those evil feelings and don't let them rule us.

We have to let those feelings go and don't let it stand in the way of our happiness.

By reciting those hatred, anger or disappointment, towards something/ somebody over and over again, you'll turn it into reality and makes it even worse and bigger than its actual size.

If you feed on it, it will grow and eat you alive.
Surely it's not how you want to live the days of your life?

Just give it a rest, let it go and focused on your own happiness for goodness sake! -_-'

I rarely shop on clothes or electronics. I usually "splurges" on food and books. But since I have my e-book reader, it's just food and food then.

But in this so-called "Sale" season, I allow myself to splurge a bit on apparels. Starting with 1 pants, and then 1 super comfy shoes ;) and another pants (same model, different color, Geez!!). And now I'm aiming for another pants and a few basic tops. Also since last week I've been inspired to buy a small bag (Goodness me :P), and maybe a few working shirt..

I'm shamefully uncontrollable!! :(

Seems like after I allow myself to spend on one thing, it feels like I'm on a high. I'm on a huge roll and feel like I NEED to buy something else. That's why usually I avoid malls as much as I can, as I don't want to spend too much on unnecessary things and always keep my priorities on check. But I guess once I unleash the shopping devil inside of me, it will need one hell of a self restraint and discipline to put it back on leash..

We can say a prayer all of our lives and never knows the meaning.
We can sometimes know the meaning but never really understands it.
We can sometimes understand the meaning but never feel it touches our hearts.
We can sometimes feel that we're able to know and feel it in our heart, but turns out it's not even one tenth of it.

It amazes me to think that sometimes people can spend their entire life thinking that they understands something without ever knowing that they don't understand it at all.

May Allah lift the veils of limitations in our 5 senses and 6 directions and grant us all a clear heart and clear mind to be able to truly see, feel and understands as much as our weak human mind, body and soul can take..

:)

I sent out my thoughts and prayers to Allah.

And so does billions of other people; and even trillions of those sent by djinns, animals, plants, microbes.. Every living, breathing being in this universe pray to Allah. So Allah must be very busy. But yet He keeps on listening. And watching. And warmed your heart just by remembering His names. Because He loves you, and He will never ever desert you.

Countless of prayers and hopes sent out everyday, and yet not even one is overlooked or neglected. If you feel like you're being ignored, it means He has other plans for you. Wether to test your faith, or to be patient, or to teach you to embrace His will, because His plan for you will be much more beautiful than your own. He sees, He listen, and He knows what's on your mind and what's troubling you, for He is closer to you than you own vein.

So have faith, and never give up. But when the time comes for you to actually given up, be grateful. Because Allah has given you a chance to make a new start, and carved a new beautiful path in your life.

This Saturday afternoon, deliberately sitting in my room the whole day doing my virtual "responsibilities".
When I finally bored with everything else, I googled myself. *yeah, I know. The ever narcissistic.* :D
After *finally!* bored with myself, I googled one of my old friend.
Stumbled into her blog, and very surprised of some unfortunate event that just happened to her.

In a way we're in the same position. I can understand her feelings. It's every woman's nightmare. But her condition are much proven and already happened. While mine, remains in the midst of anxieties and prayers. And just hope for the best. :)

Again remembering the old times, and the good times that we have together. And what a sweet, easy and happy life we used to have. And how far we've come today. Married. Have jobs. New families. Different sets of friends. Different obsessions. Different social circles. Different expectations from people that surrounds you. Different "needs". And somehow all of those things has made our simple life become so much complicated.

I don't like that. I always feels that I have a blissfully simple life. And I want to keep it that way. Or maybe its because I have a very badly short & selective memory. :) Or maybe because it's me who'd never wanted to have anything to do with complicated things, and just brushed it out of my mind. Out of my life. :D

And today, while I'm having my monthly hormonal kick (and forget to take my evening primrose oil soft gels, damn),
I feel awful. I feel upset about many things. I hate this agonizing feelings, and I hope I can just be back to my old normal simple self.

But in any day, a very good thing to do to brighten your mood is this one simple verse : "Truly, in remembering Allah do hearts find rest." (13:28)

Have a good Saturday (or whatever's left of it) and may we all have a simple & happy life! :)

Finally!! An answer for my prayer!! :D
Mika is going to have a concert in Singapore !!!! Hoorayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy.. !!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :D




pic's original link

I've never watched a proper pop-star kind of concert before in my life. So this is a big deal for me. :P

Anyway, the ticket price almost makes me lose my nerves. But when I listened to Mika's latest single, Kick-Ass; I have my courage back and decided to just go for it! :D

But then.. Another problem.
Who should I go with? None of my friends shares my excitement over this concert. And my dear hubby.. definitely not a fan! :P

More problems..
Where should I sit? Or stand? Should I buy the free standing ticket? Or the sitting ones? Arrghhh...

I couldn't help it.

Christmas made me happy.

Happy with the unexpected long holidays. Happy with the extra money :D Happy with the blockbuster movies played on tv. Happy with the laughter and happiness displayed on tv. Happy with the outrageous Christmas decorations all over the country. Happy with with the discounts. Happy with the joyful Christmas songs blaring in the radios..

So many little things made me happy during this time of year. I was literally brainwashed into happiness! But I don't mind. Because these good feelings are contagious, I tell you. :-) And I'm happy to infect everybody else with this happiness. :D

Merry Christmas everyone!

I wrote this as a note to myself. Men can't change. Whatever they say, whatever the excuses are, they just won't change -- and you just have to take it or leave it.

Men are like, .. Stones. You can't change the shape of a stone, especially with hard forces. You'll only break it, and it will left you with nothing. Sadness & loneliness, maybe. And hurting yourself along the way.

The way to change a stone, is with patience. Like water drips, everyday, for the longest time, but then you'll be able to see holes on that stone. Or you can shape the stone by chipping it, one soft thud at a time. And with patience, you will reach your goal. But never do it with full force.

Tonight I forget this golden rule. I know, and he knows-- that it's the best thing to do. But that stubborn mule brain of his got the better of him. As a result, disappointment ate me alive. And causing me an actual chest pain. :-( It reminds me how badly can emotional pain hurts your physical state of being. I forget that quite a lot.

Another problem is, can I accept him for what he is? Warts and all?

A gloomy Sunday afternoon, with dark clouds looming above the sky. I'm sitting at the bus, on my way to meet a stranger for some thing I want to buy (nothing illegal, I can assure you).

I keep my eyes on the small forest which stretch along the way from my suburban area to the city. And seeing those beautiful trees, I'm remembering Bintan.

Remembering the clear star-filled sky, and the magnificent giant trees which stand proud about 40m tall, stunningly and beautifully straight. The branches only show on the far top part of the tree. Before I don't really appreciate such a quality in a tree. It's very normal to me seeing straight trees, having lived my entire life in the island of Java, where teakwood is literally scattered everywhere; it makes all the canopied and widely branched trees of Singapore are stunningly beautiful to me. And with the average height of 30 meters and it's huge moldy branches spread out very dramatic and ever gracefully to shade any other lives below; it always reminds me of the most ancient and wise creature from the Middle Earth; the Ent.

But now I come to realize the value of straight trees I often see in Java. Especially the monetary value. In the old days, those giant straight trees can be easily cut down and carved into a boat for our brave Indonesian sailors to cross the limitless ocean. Or in the recent days, you can just have it cut down and smuggled it abroad for some hefty amount of money. It's THAT precious. But of course there's also an environmental value for such a big tree can absorb the average of 20.3 kg of carbon dioxide/ annum.

And back to the trees of Singapore, it makes me realize that all the trees here are just 'recently' planted. The Singapore government started their Garden City campaign from the 1960's; and that's when they planted all of these magnificent trees. And those trees are carefully picked for its easy maintenance, the beautiful colored flowers, the fragrant scent, the canopied shape, etc. Everything but its economical value. That's why the trees in Singapore are so much different from what I usually see in Indonesia, which obviously, everything is naturally grown. Or purposefully planted for its economy value. There are of course wee bits of planned landscape in the city planning, but I think it's not as advanced as in here (CMIIW). Here everything is planned, engineered, even a tree tucked away in the far corner of Woodlands, it was there for a purpose, and was carefully picked to serve that purpose. :D

I don't know why I get so excited talking about trees. I realized it since I moved here. Those trees evoke my amazement and curiosity. Maybe I was a tree in my previous life? A Bodhi tree which shades Buddha during his journey in finding enlightment? Or a very old creature of Middle Earth called Treebeard? :D

Just watched Amelia today, a story on Amelia Earhart. A bit of a sad ending movie, but that's not the point.

In this movie I saw how a real good partnership between a husband and wife works. The partnership between Amelia Earhart, and her husband and publisher George Putnam.

You see, Amelia was the "star", and George, as he humbly said, is a small grain of speckle in her constellation (or something like that.. :D). But in the movie it is definitely not like that. George was Amelia's rock, and her best supporter. He nurtured her, he contained all of her energy and directs it to better place. I think none of her achievement will be established without his support. And Amelia in this movie, was a very strong woman. One with a tunnel vision and a very strong will. And it took one hell of a person to be able to accommodate such a strong will and vision, and be able to contain it and direct it to a better place. And not once being shied away with his wife's successes. Because he's the one who helped her to make things happens.

He stands seemingly unseen in the shadow of her glory, but it's him who became the silent force that makes everything possible.

And THAT my friends, is a good partnership.

In a relationship between a husband and wife, there's no competition, not even about who make the most money or did most of the hard work. Because in a good partnership, it's all about supporting each other and nurturing each others passion so that together, they'll each grow to be a better person. Regardless who made the most money or who have done most of the hard work, because in the end, none of it will happen without the support of each other.

Well, I'm not really know if all those good partnership thing was only for the movie or it actually is like that. but anyways, it's a good inspiration nevertheless.

:)

Happy Saturday!

Back in the days, people sang songs not just about love; but about a city, or a flower, or an autumn leaves, or a piano, or an amusing bridge, or even about a very funny clown.

Nowadays people don’t write that kind of songs anymore. Most of the contemporary songs are all about hatred, frustration, depression, love, sex, body parts related to sex, or a broken heart. It's nice at times, but now it's getting boring. Does contemporary people really that self-minded and so unhappy they can't appreciate all the beautiful little things in life?

In that note I’ve made myself sound so ancient. Which I probably am. :D But I’m just too tired hearing songs about sex or anger or some sexual frustrations or body parts; or some songs with no clear meaning on the lyrics too.

What made me realize this is when I listen to Edith Piaf. I don’t understand a word she said, but I love her voice and I love the tunes, and that is all that matters to me. :D And the I look for lyrics of her songs, and it's a nice surprise to see that in fact most of her songs are about life, and whatever that touches her feelings at that time maybe, but definitely NOTHING on depression or hatred or body parts (CMIIW).

And then there's Owl City with their hit single Fireflies. That song really made my day. It's the most beautiful lyrics, beautiful tunes, and a beautiful video. And it makes me feel so happy just to listen to it. Link of the video is here, too bad I couldn't embed it to this post. :-S

Let's sing along then! :D

You would not believe your eyes
If ten million fireflies
Lit up the world as I fell asleep

'Cause they'd fill the open air
And leave teardrops everywhere
You'd think me rude
But I would just stand and stare

I'd like to make myself believe
That planet Earth turns slowly
It's hard to say that I'd rather stay
Awake when I'm asleep
'Cause everything is never as it seems

'Cause I'd get a thousand hugs
From ten thousand lightning bugs
As they tried to teach me how to dance

A foxtrot above my head
A sock hop beneath my bed
A disco ball is just hanging by a thread

I'd like to make myself believe
That planet Earth turns slowly
It's hard to say that I'd rather stay
Awake when I'm asleep
'Cause everything is never as it seems
When I fall asleep

Leave my door open just a crack
(Please take me away from here)
'Cause I feel like such an insomniac
(Please take me away from here)
Why do I tire of counting sheep
(Please take me away from here)
When I'm far too tired to fall asleep

To ten million fireflies
I'm weird 'cause I hate goodbyes
I got misty eyes as they said farewell

But I'll know where several are
If my dreams get real bizarre
'Cause I saved a few and I keep them in a jar

I'd like to make myself believe
That planet Earth turns slowly
It's hard to say that I'd rather stay
Awake when I'm asleep
'Cause everything is never as it seems
When I fall asleep

I'd like to make myself believe
That planet Earth turns slowly
It's hard to say that I'd rather stay
Awake when I'm asleep
'Cause everything is never as it seems
When I fall asleep

I'd like to make myself believe
That planet earth turns slowly
It's hard to say that I'd rather stay
Awake when I'm asleep
Because my dreams are bursting at the seams

And this is the cute guy who wrote the song :D

I woke up this morning with a gripping fear that I can easily die today if God wanted me to. Well I know that we can die anytime, but when I woke up this morning, the thought just came to me. And it scares me so much I couldn`t go back to sleep. :( I still feel so sleepy, but couldn`t go back to sleep.

I feel so anxious. And scared. That simply ANYTHING can happen to me today. While I`m here, alone. My husband is far away, and my family is even further. :(

I don`t want to die just yet. :( I want to have kids first, and to be able to watch them grow up to be great person. I want to build a decent family life first. With my husband right by my side. And I want to set my life right first. To be a good, kind and generous person. And hopefully to be able to help as many people as
I possibly can.

While sitting by the window, watching the rain and sipping a cup of delicious lemongrass tea; I`m thinking of beauty. A woman`s physical beauty. A beauty that would last only for 40 years, the most. But most physical beauties would only last for 20 to 30 years.

On my last trip home I went to see my Grandmother, and had an annual family gathering. My Aunt told me that she once saw a picture of my Grandmother when she was young, so very pretty, and none of her descendants are nearly as pretty as she used to. My Grandmother just smiled sheepishly at the remarks.

And I was just thinking, having lived with such beauty for, say, 40 years. And getting guys` attention in a full span of, say, 25 years. It`s more than half of your life (I meant the 40 years part). And gradually have to part with all of those privileges.. Seeing the beauty and the attention wears off day by day, each time you
look at the mirror, and each time a single line of wrinkles adorns your pretty face.

It must have been very hard.

It`s a good thing that I`m not THAT pretty :P At least I wouldn`t have such a hard time parting with I don`t have in the first place. :) But anyway, it reminds me, that`s why we need to invest more of our time, money and energy on something that can last much longer. Like intelligence, a good personality, or health. Or
our state of mental peace; or raising kids with intelligence and a good personality. :)

Here I am, sitting at the bus stop and just watch the falling leaves. I didn't know that the movement can be so relaxing to look at. And having the chance to just dissolve myself in that simple movement, without thinking about anything at all, feels like a real luxury.

Or maybe I already too tense, at the edge of breaking out? I don't know.

Say, 50 years ago, people who thinks that watching fallen leaves to be a luxury, may be deemed as lunatics. But then, 50 years ago they know nothing of internet, or mobile phones, or budget airlines, or laptops, or facebook, or wikipedia; and the earth is still a large scary unknown universe.

But now, the world has shrunk, into whatever size depends on how big is your monitor screen. Mostly would be 17 inch then.

And the faraway countries, is no longer a twilight zone, but merely a universal playground where everybody can just hop in anytime they want.

Sometimes it amazes and scares me to see how fast the world has changed, even during my short 28 years of life. Everything is moving so fast, whirling, twisting, twirling, sucking, grinding, dragging everything and everyone into God knows what. But from the pace I see now, it doesn't seems like a good thing.

So it's nice to be able to just stop for a while, just to watch leaves falling, or lay at the beach and stare blankly at the horizon, or just sit by your window and looking the blue skies ..

And nothing would be better than Macy Gray to put everything in one lovely tune called Slowly.

Would it be so bad, if we just stopped for a while ..
And enjoyed the thrills we could all be still let the world just pass us by
But it's all hurry hurry run run there's no time for this
We want more and more got to win got to score so afraid of what we'll miss
And it moves so fast; nothing lasts
This too here will come to pass
Wanna spend my days away from all the fuss
Wanna spend them with you baby but you're in a rush

Slowly
Why can't we just take our time
Slowly
I wish that we could take our time ..

A beautiful short movie that I'd definitely have to share with everyone. :) Remember to love your parents people! :)



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