I wrote this as a note to myself. Men can't change. Whatever they say, whatever the excuses are, they just won't change -- and you just have to take it or leave it.
Men are like, .. Stones. You can't change the shape of a stone, especially with hard forces. You'll only break it, and it will left you with nothing. Sadness & loneliness, maybe. And hurting yourself along the way.
The way to change a stone, is with patience. Like water drips, everyday, for the longest time, but then you'll be able to see holes on that stone. Or you can shape the stone by chipping it, one soft thud at a time. And with patience, you will reach your goal. But never do it with full force.
Tonight I forget this golden rule. I know, and he knows-- that it's the best thing to do. But that stubborn mule brain of his got the better of him. As a result, disappointment ate me alive. And causing me an actual chest pain. :-( It reminds me how badly can emotional pain hurts your physical state of being. I forget that quite a lot.
Another problem is, can I accept him for what he is? Warts and all?
Men Can't Change & Don't You Forget It
Friday, December 04, 2009 by kivaa
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2 things others'd say:
Ah well, we all learn the hard way.
By the way, sometimes we forget that unlike stone, men have feelings like women do.
You are, by your own admission, "a short life spanned creature." Welcome to reality.
Men are and have always been exactly who and what we represent. The only thing you will ever change is your perception, as you seem to have finally done.
The world will be a better place as soon as women stop trying to emasculate us and get a grip on their own femininity.
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